CD13 – Wholeness
This process is one of embracing our wholeness. Throughout life we have had ups and downs, mishaps and success, we have loved, lost, experienced hurt, been overwhelmed, made good decisions, made not so good decisions, all of our experiences make up how we are today. This process is of unconditional acceptance of the good, bad and ugly of ourselves, our lives, choices and feelings. Everything is accepted without judgment, for only from a space of acceptance can be begin to integrate the learning in order to make different choices next time. While we hold on in judgment we almost guarantee a repeat experience. People often have difficult accepting those imperfect aspects of the self, yet rather than embracing them in love and acceptance, they are banished to a secret room somewhere deep in the psyche, with some kind of delusion that if left long enough a) they will disappear or b) they will magically be transformed and then we can accept them. Integrated mastery is about accepting our choices, acknowledging our feelings and loving all of ourselves without limit or condition. For only with attitudes of openness, honesty and courage can we truly recognise which choices are made from love and those made from fear – in order to learn more about ourselves and make more choices each day from a space of love. Wholeness process is of deep self acceptance and not waiting until we are perfect to begin truly living.